Put pen to paper. Even if you’ve never done it, maybe especially if you’ve never done it, write a love note. Notice, I didn’t say letter, I said note. The recipe is simple, three paragraphs. First, a cherished memory you have of times with him/her. Second, something you love about him/her. Third, how he or she makes you feel. Sign it I love you, and you’re done. Very important note: Give her this note at dinner or deliver it to his or her office during the day.